Family History

Life is just between laugh and cry.....
When nothing makes you laugh, then suffer crying...
and when your not crying, grab the opportunity to laugh.....
that's life!!!!!



This is a story of my Family.


When i was 10 year old, my family and i lived at San Pedro Laguna. My father was a security guard while my mother was a house wife. During that time, we were renting a small house. I studied at Pacita Complex 1 Laguna while my little sister was kinder at the same school. I taught life was just a simple as that and i never taught that one day our simple and happy family will be broken.

It was my father's birthday when they had some gathering with my uncles. Drinking some beers and singing songs. My mother noticed that my father never talked even a single word. Right after his birthday, he was scheduled to go some other place to be assigned. and that place is Davao City. We were just wondering why he will be assigned at that very far place since were just living at San Pedro, but we just leave it a big question in our minds. He was drunk during that time and he was schedule to depart at 5:00 am in the morning so my mother decided to fixed his things before that time. We helped our mother to make it faster. When the sun starts to sun we have nothing to do but to say good bye to our father and tell him that we will be missing him..But he never leave any words that bothers me so well.


Few months later,

We received news from our neighborhood that our Father was with other girl already. They are now living in one one.My mother and i was so shocked upon hearing the news. At first were trying ourselves not to believe what other says till one day, we received a call from a girl named Bebeng that they are now living with my father.
During that time, we taught that world stop turning!!! and were starting to be crazy. My mother drink alcohol everyday. we fell like no cares about us. Till i ask God,
Lord, are you still existing?
why have you done this to our family?
You know that we can't solve such problem like this?


Those questions of mine remains unanswered.


One day, someone, touched my mother's heart and gave some advices that inspires my mother to look for way that we can pay our monthly rent and our daily source. She been through a lot of experience from different jobs just to supply our needs till one day she decided to worked as a helper. She was stay out. We find difficult being far from my mother. So she begged to the person to whom she is working that if it's okay to them, we will be staying at their house. It's takes time before they approved our request. We made their hording house as our house.


One day, the couple offered to support me from my studies as well y sister so we don't have to worry. It was a big helped!!!
They treat us like their son and daughter as well.

We were so thankful to them..

Maybe God Make them an instrument to helped us.


Now, i am already 19 year old and we don't have any news about my father if he is still alive.
If one day we will see each other , i don't know what to do. i mean, i don't know if i could forgive him of what he has done. For leaving us without any source!!!
Sometimes i wished that he is already dead than seeing him with hatred.

But i know he is still my father no matter what happen.

Thank you for reading my story, i hope that you've learbn something.And if ever you know my father, he's name is ANDRESITO LAZARRAGA. bOBOY for short please inform me.
Thanks a lot.